Can I Get a Witness?

Have you ever witnessed an accident and then had to give an account? It’s humbling to stand at the scene watching the officer write down your words. The future life of a person’s record and insurance claims are in your hands.

I’ve witnessed my share of accidents, but one I experienced last week brought the burden of witness upon my shoulders. I met the young girl on a dirt road and saw that she got too close to the loose edge of the gravel. After she passed me, I looked in my rear view mirror and witnessed her fishtailing and eventually rolling her car in a cloud of dust. I whipped around not knowing what I’d find, my adrenaline taking over. Thankfully, the car landed upright and the 17-year-old girl sat behind the wheel shaken, but appearing fine. The rear end of the car had the most damage so the spot where she sat cocooned her body. Items from her car lay strewn across the ditch including a Fellowship of Christian Athletes Bible. She climbed out, we hugged, she cried, and we shook.

Then the witnessing process began. The sheriff and deputies, paramedics, and ambulance arrived. I retold the story to each one, choosing my words carefully. My name, address, phone number, and drivers license were recorded. “How fast was she going?” the sheriff asked me. “I don’t know,” I replied and I didn’t. I’m a terrible judge of speed and distance. Luckily he didn’t press me with that one and moved on to another question. It humbled me knowing that my words would affect this young girl’s life, especially in the days ahead.

Christ calls us to be His witnesses as well. And I’m just as humbled. My words and actions (especially my actions!) will, unfortunately, either draw someone to Christ or allow them to think they’re just as well without Him. I realize Christ is bigger than my mess-ups, but it’s still a position of humbling power. The disciples and early followers of Christ were witnesses to what they saw. We don’t have that story to tell, but we have our own. Peter tells us to “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have.” – 1 Peter 3:15b. God is sovereign and spreads His message however He chooses. But for some reason, one of the ways is through us – those who have experienced His redeeming Love.  Paul also tells us, “We are therefore Christ’s ambassadors, as though God were making His appeal through us.” – 2 Corinthians 5:20. This appeal is someone’s future life – someone’s eternity.

Father God, thank you for entrusting us with Your message – the witness of Your redeeming love in our life. Forgive us when we fail You and fall short and perhaps cause someone to stumble. Oh, please forgive us! It’s a humbling position, and we rely on Your grace and sovereignty. – In Jesus Name, Amen.

 

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Telltale Signs

Telltale Sign

Telltale Sign

I call it her dirt mustache. It’s a telltale sign she’s been digging in the dirt. Her guilt submits itself with a smile like Denver the Guilty Dog when I ask her, “Liberty, have you been digging?” I don’t even have to see the hole – it’s revealed across that nose . She’s just being a dog, I tell myself. Liberty is naturally bent to dig. Give her a little time to get bored, and another hole shows up in our yard or flower bed. Continue reading

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Take Care

When you’re unwell, do you allow others to take care of you, or do you prefer to soldier on alone? What does it take for you to ask for help? Does it take a crisis in your life like a tornado?

I learned this the hard way. Refusing help, saying “Thank you, but I can…” Call it pride, independence, or dare I say, stepping into the puddle of self-centeredness. It may appear that I was thinking of others and not wanting to “put them out,” but in fact, I was thinking of myself. Not wanting people to see me in such a way – Helpless. Then someone older gave me a little scolding. “You know, when you don’t let others help, you rob them of the blessing.” Continue reading

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It’s Fine, Tom

Do you have a favorite quote from a movie that you actually use in life situations? Not just a funny quote, but a real usable one? I realize Hollywood is not the source for guidance, but there are a few good writers out there that inspire or offer good one-liners. My husband and I have one from Seabiscuit. Continue reading

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So Worth It

DSCN3822 (616x640)While visiting the Magnolia Plantation in Charleston, South Carolina, my husband and I found a plaque at the entrance to one of the gardens. Written in beautiful gold script were words from John Greenleaf Whittier:

Give fools their gold and knaves their power;

Let fortune’s bubbles rise and fall;

Who sows a field, or trains a flower,

Or plants a tree, is more than all.

I like that. Although I don’t claim to have a green thumb or consider gardening a hobby, I love the result of planting. It’s creating beauty. And I believe it’s God’s design in us. After all, we are made in His image and He is The Creator. Creating gives us meaning. Continue reading

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Pulled

PulledDoing vs Being. This is my current struggle. My being pulled in two different directions. It’s an elusive middle. Martin Luther explained it best describing “The Freedom of the Christian:”

A Christian is a perfectly free lord of all, subject to none.
A Christian is a perfectly dutiful servant of all, subject to all.

I’m getting pulled over to the “dutiful” side a lot lately. Being task and service oriented, it’s my stronger side. After 30 years of bringing in a paycheck from the workplace, I’ve begun struggling with not contributing, striving to feel worthwhile, the whole “earning my keep in this world.” I know it’s wrong thinking, but that’s why it’s a struggle. Questions invade my thoughts everyday – am I doing enough? This change has unsettled me more than I thought it would. Continue reading

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In Person

Perfection

I tell young women, especially mothers, to stop comparing themselves with others. The biggest culprit today? Facebook.

Sitting in front of your screen or holding your Smartphone with exciting, supermom lives popping up in your face while you’re dealing with a screaming, runny-nosed two-year old in which you want to run out the back door to escape from – is nothing but deflating. It causes immense striving for the unattainable woman of perfection. This woman is worse than the Proverbs 31 woman, because this woman lives on earth right now. She’s current, and she’s on Facebook everyday. Continue reading

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With Pen – A Lost Art?

Fountain PenWhile flying to Hilton Head Island for our anniversary, I scoped out the occupants of the seats nearby. You do this too, don’t you? I wonder where they’re going, where they’ve been, and why they’re traveling. Is it business, pleasure, an emergency? Who are these people? I wish everyone wore a sign with a short bio. Continue reading

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Celebrating 30 Years

Call it unwinding, regrouping, refilling the cup, pushing the pause button. My husband and I celebrated 30 years of marriage at Hilton Head Island, South Carolina recently.

Celebrating 30 Years

Celebrating 30 Years

In a way, it was like buffering – allowing our lives to download and store up before starting to “run” again. We brought no computers which means no email, no Facebook (I don’t own a smartphone), and no writing. It also helped to get away to a place of warmth, greenery, flowers, and water in the month of May. Which for someone who lives in Wyoming, is like a spring in the desert.

Atlantic from the deck

Atlantic from the deck

“I will make springs in the desert, so that my chosen people can be refreshed.” – Isaiah 43:20

The time was an opportunity to spend in quietness and stillness with no agenda. A fitting mode to engage the soul with God.

Magnolia Plantation, Charleston, South Carolina

Magnolia Plantation, Charleston, South Carolina

“I will give you abundant water to quench your thirst and to moisten your parched fields. And I will pour out my Spirit and my blessings on your children. They will thrive like watered grass, like willows on a riverbank.” – Isaiah 44:3-4

Although we were celebrating our anniversary, it felt like a retreat. Jane Rubietta writes in Quiet Places, “The purpose of retreat is not to check off a list of Scriptures read, quotes studied, or prayers said. It is an escape into the calm arms of God.”

Sunset Cruise

Sunset Cruise

“Come with me by yourselves to a quiet place and get some rest.” – Mark 6:31

How thrilling to experience new sights, sounds, and smells. Pelicans flying low in formation like F-16′s. Dolphins skimming the coastline at early morning light. Seagulls crying and sailing over sea. Critter Management relocating an alligator off our resort. Honeysuckle and lilacs lining the bike path. The tide. For as long as I live, I will never get over the tide coming in and rolling back out. Crashing waves lolling sleep. Biking on the beach.

Biking on the Beach

Biking on the Beach

Our favorite path

Our favorite path

Biking on Hilton Head Island

Honeysuckle fence lines

“The lines have fallen to me in pleasant places; Indeed, my heritage is beautiful to me.” – Psalm 16:6

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Storms and Heavy Lifting

DSCN3735 (640x480)Storms bring out the best in people. We in Wyoming know this. We just experienced a three-day snow storm. On the fourth day, the wind blew and our driveway became rolling hills of drifts. I remember the first day we drove into the yard to look at this house up on a hill. My husband and I both thought, “Oh boy, a north-facing house, with a down-sloping driveway.” Yes, it has lived up to its expectations. But we have awesome neighbors and friends with tractors.DSCN3741 (640x480) Continue reading

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